Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Palmer Family Grew Slowly

Jim Palmer at six months


        Dad and Mom loved kids and worked with many through the years before and after their marriage.  However, having a family of their own was not an easy process, as it turned out.  When they left the Mine Hollow in 1932, at Christmas time, a few months after their marriage to spend the holidays with Mom’s parents in Brigham City, they were thrilled knowing that their first child was on it’s way. But during their holiday in Brigham, Mom began to experience warning signs of a miscarriage and their first little son came into the world stillborn.  Mom stayed with her parents for several weeks of recuperation and Dad returned to Park Valley to find work. That spring they bought the Seely Ranch in Rosette.  The following year, in February of 1934, Jim was born in Tremonton, and what a joy he was to Dad and Mom. 
Paul & Jim in 1937
            Two years later, February 1936, Mom was expecting another baby, but what a surprise, when twins, Paul and Paula came into the world on February 17th.  Dad was thrilled to spread the word especially about their first daughter, but the next day he was called back from the ranch as one of the babies was in trouble.  When he arrived at the hospital, he found it was not Paul, the weaker of the babies, but little Paula.  Apparently the nurses had been so concerned with Paul’s care that they failed to give her the needed fluids, and when discovered, she was so dehydrated that it was to late to save her life.  Dad and Mom  wondered how that could possibly happen in a new modern hospital.  Sorrowfully, Dad took her home to Park Valley for her burial, while Mom and Paul remained in the hospital.
Paula Palmer's burial
            Two and a half years later, in June 1938, I, (Junelle) came into the world at Brigham City, three months premature, a tiny three pound baby, the size of a baby doll that Dad could support in his hand. A blood problem had come into play, called RH factor, and only one of my lungs was developed enough to function, so the head nurse stayed with me for hours to blow into my mouth and keep me breathing, if possible.  It was a grave situation.  I was immediately given a blessing and a name by my grandfather, Wesley Wight.  In the weeks that followed my condition improved and I was finally able to go home.
Junelle Palmer
            The summer that I was five, Mom went into the hospital to have her tonsils out and our neighbor Madeline Olague was also there for the birth of her new baby, Rozina.  I told people that I didn’t think it was fair that Madeline got a baby at the hospital and they didn’t give Mom one! I wanted a baby at our house too.
            Because of the fear of complications with the RH Factor, years passed, then when I was about eight, Mom was again expecting, but one summer day, complications began, Mom was hemorrhaging. All that Dad told us kids was that Dr. Rasmussen was coming to take care of Mom and we were to stay nearby, but away from the house.  The doctor flew out from Brigham City and landed at Park Valley where Uncle Joe picked him up in his car.  He came and cared for Mom and an hour or two later he left.  Our tiny premature baby brother (who Mom called Bruce) was stillborn and Dad buried him on the ranch.  Dad came out in the yard to get us and took us into the bedroom where we knelt by her bedside, and as Dad prayed, tears rolled down his face, and he pleaded with the Lord to save her life.  I remember knowing it was a very serious situation. After staying on bed rest for several weeks, she was still very weak, but began to be able to get up to do a few things around the house with our help.  I remember separating clothes into batches and putting them into the ringer washer on the back porch and helping to hang the clothes on the clothes line in the yard. Dad cooked, I washed dishes and we swept the floors.  We all helped while she recovered. 
            When I was almost twelve, Mom told me one spring day that she was expecting a baby and would I help her make little clothes during the summer.  In the fall she came home from Dr. Rasmussen’s office and announced that she was expecting twins!  We were all excited and we began to make duplicates for the baby clothes, quilts, diapers, etc.
Layne & Lynn
             We really didn’t know that it was risky for Mom to try to have more children, only that she and Dad wanted more family.  It kind’a became a now or never situation  as Mom has since told me.  It was no mistake when Lynn and Layne came along when Dad was fifty and Mom was forty.  She put her life on the line and they prayed for a blessing.  We were all blessed when they came into our family in November of 1950.  We played with them, helped with them, and always brought home treats for them when we went away to high school, college and missions.  They were always a blessing to Dad and Mom and kept them young at heart.  We learned at an early age that prayers and blessings were a reality.  Morning prayers were always said kneeling at our chairs with their backs turned to the table.  I am sure it’s the pattern Dad learned from his parents from his early years in their family home.
            I can understand their feelings personally.  After we lost our little Robert Alan in 1973, the doctor told us there would be no more children, but we wanted another child, perhaps another son, and through the miracle of fertility medication, our many prayers were answered when John came into our family in April of 1976, and our girls became our little helpers. 

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Our Childhood on the Ranch

Paul, Junelle and Jim at the Park Valley Cemetery about 1941


We grew up after the great depression of the 1930's and were children during the war years of the early 1940's, and the rationing of World War II.  It was normal everyday life for us and all our neighbors in the small country communities of Lynn and Park Valley.  As we have talked through the years, we have found that our family life experiences were much the same, which included baths in the tin wash tub, hair cuts with the hand clippers, back when school attire the boys was shirts and bib overalls and the girls wore dresses, pinafores and long socks.

Most of our food was basic, “made from scratch”, meaning that if we made a cake, we used flour, eggs, shortening, sugar etc.  There were no cake mixes back then.  We grew large vegetable gardens and had orchards of fruit trees.  We had lots of greens and vegetables. We grew our own chickens, pigs and beef cattle for meat and the small herd of dairy cows we milked morning and night.  The milk was poured into a separator, we cranked the handle by hand and the skim milk came out one spout and the cream from another.  The pigs were fed the skim milk and we made butter from the cream in the old churn, turning it by hand, which also provided the buttermilk for Mom’s special ginger crumb cake.  We also sold whole milk and cream, giving us checks for cash.  We had laying hens and it was our job to feed the chickens and gather the eggs every day.  Some eggs were also sold.  In the spring the folks would order baby chickens through a mail order and raise them in the little brooder house until they were big enough to let out in the chicken run.  We really enjoyed Mom’s fried chicken with mashed potatoes and gravy, or potato salad and deviled eggs.  Homemade ice cream and cinnamon rolls were also a very special treat. Those country women were really good cooks! 

Only a few essential items were purchased at the grocery store.  The fruits and vegetables were “bottled” all summer long, also jams and jellies, corn and beans and various kinds of pickles, were all organized down stairs in the fruit cellar.  There was also a root cellar, near the brick house, for storing potatoes, carrots, squash, onions, apples, at harvest time.  We were pretty much self sustaining.

In the summer we helped in the gardens, watering and weeding, and in the fields of hay and grain, where we used teams of horses.  We rode the derrick horse and liked to ride on the top of the wagon loads of loose hay headed to the stack yards by the house.  We set the nets for the meadow hay, used a hay loader, a buck rake, a dump rake and a Jackson fork to ‘put up’ the stacks of loose alfalfa and meadow hay.  We had a binder to cut and tie the grain into bundles which we stood in shocks, ready for the thrasher crew. There were no tractors or bailers back then. 

We had daily chores, like filling the wood box, feeding the animals, gather the eggs or watering the horses, but a lot of the work was fun for us kids, and adventurous too.  There was time to pick wild flowers, catch bull frogs, watch the clouds roll by, run trap lines, ride horses, check out nests for bird eggs or make mud pies.  We liked to go with Dad to the meadows to change the water, and to the canyon to fish or fix fences.  We enjoyed  feeding the cattle in winter, going to the mountains for the Christmas tree or branding calves in spring. We didn’t have electricity back then.  (We were almost teenagers when electrical power lines were built into the small rural communities in western Box Elder County where we grew up and it CHANGED OUR WORLD!)

In those early years, for heat and cooking we had a wood burning kitchen range with a baking oven and small warming ovens on top, and warmed water in the  reservoir on the opposite end from the cook top. We also had a fireplace and a coal stove for heat.  Our lights were small gas or coal oil lamps that hung from a hook in the kitchen ceiling or sat on the table.  Our bedrooms were cold and frigid in winter.

Back then, in the rural communities and on the ranches, breakfast was a large meal and was meant to get the day started right.  It would include cooked cereal, bacon, sausage or sliced fried ham, eggs, baking power biscuits, or fried potatoes, hash, or pancakes.  Several if not all of these, especially when we had company.  Dinner was the noon meal, usually a large full meal, would include meat, potatoes and gravy, with vegetables and salad, followed by dessert.  Supper was in the evening and was the smaller meal of the day.  Sunday dinner was often a pot roast of venison or beef with vegetables, put in the oven of the kitchen range and left to cook while we were at church.  Homemade rolls, pies, cakes, cinnamon rolls or cookies were a part of most meals.  Ice cream was homemade with our own milk, eggs, lots of cream, vanilla and sugar, then churned by hand with ice from the ice shed or from the mountain.  We learned that using snow in the freezer took a lot longer to freeze.

In the early years, our water came from a well in the front yard that had a hand pump that stood on the top of the well.  We just pumped the handle and into the bucket hanging on the spout of the pump, came fresh cold water.  Our friends, the Al James family in Muddy, had a large, long rope on a reelthat hung from the well cover with a bucket tied to the end that they would let down into the open well to fill with water.  Our bathroom facilities were hand soap and a little water basin in the kitchen and a path to the outhouse.

On wash day, we would fill two large boiler pans with water from the well and heat them on the kitchen range, then pour them into the gas-powered Maytag washer, and add some of Mom’s homemade laundry soap.  The rinse water was a tub of cold water from the well with a little “blueing” added to whiten the whites and sheets.  It took all day to do all the batches of clothes and get them hung on the clothes lines to dry.  Washday was Monday and ironing day was on Tuesday, using the flat irons heated on the top of the kitchen range.  Cleaning day was usually on Saturday.  Bread baking took place a couple of times a week, four to six loaves at a time, made by hand.

We often had company drop in and they were always invited to stay to eat.  Those country cooks could really stretch a meal.  We went to visit often with family and friends and they came to our house.  It was a slower pace of life back then.  There was no TV, but we did have a battery powered radio that Dad would turn on in the evening to hear the news.  We played games and did a lot of reading and puzzles on the long winter nights and we also had a piano. 

We had a very close bond with family members and neighbors.  We depended on each other.  We spent a lot of time together, enjoyed church socials, dances and school activities.  It was a bonding experience and a diversion from everyday life.  It was simpler way of life and what great memories we each have from those days of our childhood on the ranch.

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Childhood Memories

Rud & Letitia Palmer family in 1969
In General Conference several years ago  President Henry B. Eyring encouraged us to record for our family, the “faith promoting experiences” and the “blessed moments” of our lives.  I hope this new family blog will help you to know and love our Palmer family and it’s history.  I will be sharing a few of my own memories and family history with you.  I would be happy to include any memories my brothers and others who would like to share.

Our parents raised us through their example with strong values, a love of the gospel and of family history, with many fond memories on the ranch we called home, and a work ethic that prepared us for life. 

The reunion last weekend at Lava Hot Springs was such a fun time.  It was so good to see everyone and to enjoy sharing our memories around the campfire Friday evening.  It was fun and very spontaneous. With Dee Ray’s help the kids entertained with a “ Snake Grass Band”. It was fun tubing in the river and enjoying the hot pools.   The trips to the little pioneer town of Chesterfield a few miles north was a reminder of our connection to it’s early years, and while there to visit the grave of our great grandmother, Elizabeth Mason Miller.  Great food and good times together!


Ever Close in Mind and Heart
by Marjorie Frances Ames

No further away than a picture,
A smile or remembered phrase,
Our parents live in memory.
So close in many ways.

For how often does a sunset
Bring nostalgic thoughts to mind,
Of memories with our parents
Of days now left behind!

How often has a flower
Or a crystal Autumn sky
Brought golden recollections
Of happy days gone by!

Yes, memory has a magic way
Of keeping loved ones near,
Ever close in mind and heart
Are the ones we hold most dear.

Saturday, June 22, 2013

Introduction

Rud and Letitia are my parents. They had a deep love of, and appreciation for, their family history. They passed this interest on to me. With the updates in technology, it's now possible for me to easily share this information with you. This website will contain memories, photos, writings, and other items that relate to their family. As I get items ready, we'll add them - so please keep checking back for updates. If you have stories to request or information to share, please contact me, Junelle P. Lind, at mnjlind@gmail.com.